The Break-up

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Boy: I broke up with her.

His Best Friend: What happened?

Boy: She’s just too much for me.

His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?

Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..

Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..

Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..

Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t bitch about it.

His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..

Boy: Well, she..

His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?

Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?

His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.

SOMETIMES we don't realize we are losing a diamond while collecting stones..

"Guys don't let her go... she is the only one"...

Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.

The most critical moment in life.

The most critical moment in life. When someone very special hurts you deeply, gives tears to your eyes. And ask, what happened? But u just reply, Nothing…

It hurts the worst when the person that made you feel so special yesterday, makes you feel so unwanted today. Unknown.

Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.” ~ C. JoyBell C.

Hurting back the people who hurt you

Hurting back the people who hurt you, makes you just like them.

Hurting people serves no purpose. It is a waste of time even thinking about them. Karma happens, we have to let it go, in time they will evaporate just like a tear that you may have shed over them when they hurt you. ~ Linda McMinis

The Most Dangerous Liars

The most dangerous liars are those who think they're telling the truth.

“Always do what you're afraid to do.” ~ E. Lockhart

“There is beauty in truth, even if it's painful. Those who lie, twist life so that it looks tasty to the lazy, brilliant to the ignorant, and powerful to the weak. But lies only strengthen our defects. They don't teach anything, help anything, fix anything or cure anything. Nor do they develop one's character, one's mind, one's heart or one's soul.” ~ José N. Harris

Liars are caught when they lie and can not remember the lies and tell more to cover up and it blows totally out of control (this is why I struggle telling any lies or fibs, I don’t have the time and energy to file them away and remember them). However I believe a sociopath has the skill and in most cases believes the lies and deceit so can use it to there advantage. They do not have a sense or right or wrong, guilt and remorse. ~ Sammii Shaw

You can’t keep hurting a person

If someone decides they're not going to be happy, it's not your problem. You don't have to spend your time and energy trying to cheer up someone who has already decided to stay in a bad mood. Believe it or not, you can actually hurt people by playing into their self-pity. ~ Joyce Meyer

Remember it’s a choice, you decide what is best for you. No one else, as I was told – hurt me one time, it’s forgiveable, hurt me two times shame on me, hurt me three times I don’t ask why, make a plan to exit the situation. ~ Michele Robinson

Hurting leads to distrust then you built that wall around you so you won’t be hurt again. Then you trust no one which makes it hard for others that come along. The right person will be the one that accepts you as you are. Hurt, scared, broken and recovering from it. ~ Augustine Gillespie